The identity of a real man is something that needs to be chased with everything that you are. The Lord has called the man to be the head of the family. Not the ruler or the family boss but the head. As the head of the family it is important to have love, grace, humility, leadership, Godly authority and Godly confidence evident and active in your life. These traits should also be evident in everyday life as well.
Even if your a young man, this is good for you to learn now so that you become ready and able to lead your future family the way God has called you to lead.